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Dating Intelligence the Podcast

A dating coach and a transformation coach offer unfiltered advice on modern relationships, from energy healing to non-monogamy.

The brief

This show combines the structured expertise of a dating coach with the intuitive, spiritual perspective of a transformation coach. Episodes alternate between interviews with niche experts—like energy healers, relationship coaches, and creators exploring polyamory—and candid 'solo' conversations between the hosts. They tackle the 'invisible' forces in dating, from energetic blockages to subconscious patterns, aiming for insights beyond surface-level tips.

Unlike many dating podcasts focused on rules and tactics, Dating Intelligence dives into the emotional and energetic undercurrents of relationships. The hosts' chemistry and willingness to discuss their own breakups and personal growth in real-time gives the show a raw, workshop-like feel.
— What makes it distinctive
§1 · The host

Who hosts this show

Hosted by Christopher Louis, an international dating coach, and Natalie Stavola, an actress, producer, and transformation coach. The podcast provides candid conversations on modern dating, covering everything from first dates to long-term commitment with expert guests and raw honesty. The show launched in April 2020 and was originally co-hosted by Jamie Villamor.

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Credentials & credits

  • International dating and relationship coach (Christopher Louis)
  • Certified life and love coach (Natalie Stavola)
  • Actress (Natalie Stavola)
  • Producer (Natalie Stavola)
  • Writer (Natalie Stavola)
  • Degree in psychology and communications (Natalie Stavola)

Other ventures

  • Dating coaching practice (Christopher Louis)
  • Life and love coaching practice (Natalie Stavola)
  • Acting career in film and TV, including 'Burn Notice' (Natalie Stavola)
  • Mentee of filmmaker Garry Marshall (Natalie Stavola)
§2 · Classification

What kind of podcast

Region
usa
§3 · Cadence & catalog

When new episodes drop

§3b · Editor's picks

Notable episodes

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  1. 01
    Boundaries, Blind Spots & Better Love

    The first 'solo' episode with the current hosts, it establishes their dynamic as they discuss personal topics like breakups, sobriety, and setting boundaries.

  2. 02
    The Invisible Reason You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person | feat. Stefanie Truino

    A representative example of the show's spiritual approach, featuring an energy healer and discussing concepts like energetic 'cords of attachment'.

  3. 03
    "Loving Out Loud: Inside The Poly Couple's Comedy, Chaos, and Real Talk on Non-Monogamy"

    Showcases their exploration of non-traditional relationship structures by interviewing the creators of a web series about their polyamorous life.

§4 · Signature

What you'll be asked on this show

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How the host interviews

Episodes are typically long-form interviews or unstructured conversations between the two hosts. Christopher Louis often takes the lead with structured questions, while Natalie Stavola brings a personal, narrative-driven perspective, sometimes sharing vulnerable details like her sobriety journey or a recent 'conscious uncoupling'. The tone is candid and unapologetic, aiming to tell listeners what they 'need to know,' not just what they want to hear.

Questions the host keeps coming back to

  • How are you applying this to the dating space?
  • What's the first thing you would suggest to someone to get out of their own way?
  • How do you handle [a specific emotion like jealousy]?
  • What is your take on shows like 'Love is Blind'?
  • Would you rather be a couple that [fights a lot] or a couple that [doesn't fight]?
  • What are some of the hard things that you want people to know?
  • What are some personal boundaries that you have?

Signature segments

  • · Introductory montage with music and clips
  • · Candid host banter at the start of episodes

Topics covered repeatedly

PolyamoryEnergy healing (Reiki, Akashic Records)Setting boundariesDating after divorceSelf-awarenessConscious uncouplingAttachment stylesReality TV dating showsToxic relationship cyclesAuthenticity in dating
§5 · Guests

Who gets booked here

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Typical guest

The show books experts who can speak to a specific, often unconventional, facet of relationships. This includes energy healers, relationship coaches specializing in post-divorce life, and creators exploring alternative relationship models like polyamory.

Recent guests
  • Dana and Daniel
    on "Loving Out Loud: Inside The Poly Couple's Comedy, Chaos, and Real Talk on Non-Monogamy"
  • Stefanie Truino
    on The Invisible Reason You Keep Attracting the Wrong Person | feat. Stefanie Truino
  • Ana Lea Christian
    on How Self Awareness Transforms Your Love Life! feat. Ana Christian
  • Kristine Krishnan
    on Dating After Divorce: How to Rebuild Yourself & Attract the Right Partner! feat. Kristine Krishnan
§6 · Channels & links

Where to find this show

§7 · Stats

Audience & reach

YouTube · first-party
Subscribers
37.1K
37,100
Avg views / video
27.6K
Trailing window
Total views
3.4M
3,449,858
Videos published
125
Sponsor readEstimated

The podcast is consistently sponsored by J4L.com, an international dating platform for mature men seeking relationships with Slavic women. This suggests an audience demographic that may include older men interested in traditional or international dating.

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§8 · Contact

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§9b · FAQ

People also ask

AI-extracted researched answers · help us verify
Who are the hosts of Dating Intelligence?
The podcast is hosted by Christopher Louis, an international dating coach, and Natalie Stavola, an actress, producer, and transformation coach.
Is the podcast still running?
Yes, the podcast is active and releases episodes on a regular basis.
What is the format of the show?
Episodes are typically long-form conversations, either between the two hosts or as an interview with an expert guest on a specific relationship topic.
Where can I listen to the podcast?
Dating Intelligence is available on its official website, YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and other major podcast platforms.
What kind of topics do they cover?
They cover a wide range of modern dating topics, including self-awareness, setting boundaries, energy healing, non-monogamy, and recovering from divorce.
Last updatedJun 29, 2026Not yet host-verified
Research depthDeep dossierHigh confidence · Jun 29, 2026 · gemini-2.5-pro

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§9c · Methodology

Sources & how this page was built

This page is AI-assisted, grounded in the public sources cited below, and host-verifiable. We publish facts only; we do not republish transcripts. If anything here is wrong, the host can claim and correct the page above.Model: gemini-2.5-pro · high confidence

  1. [01]Official Websitedatingintelligence.com
  2. [02]Christopher Louis Coachingdatingintelligence.com
  3. [03]Life & Work with Natalie Stavola - Voyage LA Magazinevoyagela.com
  4. [04]Natalie Stavola: A Rising Powerhouse in Hollywood - Thrive Timesthrivetimes.com
  5. [05]Actress Coaches On Finding Love - Heart Of Hollywood Magazineheartofhollywoodmagazine.com
  6. [06]Dating Intelligence the Podcast - Podcast Republicpodcastrepublic.net
  7. [07]Natalie Stavola Resume - Actors Accessresumes.actorsaccess.com
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