Dating in Berlin
A humorous and unfiltered weekly chat about the highs, lows, and absurdities of dating in Berlin, hosted by author Lulu Johnson.
This is a guest-centric talk show that feels like eavesdropping on a candid chat between friends about their dating lives. Episodes alternate between personal disaster stories from guests and host Lulu Johnson, and interviews with experts on topics adjacent to dating, like cycle health or healthy masculinity. The common thread is a frank, humorous, and often explicit look at navigating relationships in Berlin.
“Unlike many dating podcasts that offer generic advice, this show is hyperlocal, focusing specifically on the unique culture of dating in Berlin. The host's willingness to share her own long, detailed, and often embarrassing stories creates a uniquely intimate and reciprocal dynamic with her guests.”
Who hosts this show
Lulu Johnson is an Irish author and storyteller who moved to Berlin in 2015. After navigating the city's unique dating culture, she self-published the book "Dating in Berlin" and launched this podcast, subtitled "Dating, Laughter & Disasters," to continue the conversation. In each episode, she hosts guests for candid, funny, and often explicit chats about their dating lives, and also records live storytelling shows for a public audience.
Credentials & credits
- Author, "Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love & Relationships"
- Podcast Host & Producer
- Live Storyteller (Smut Slam)
- Works in the tech industry (day job)
Other ventures
- "Dating in Berlin" (Book)
- Live podcast recordings and workshops
- Berlin Dating Weekender (collaboration with Annika Sanchez of Overdated)
What kind of podcast
- Country
- Germany
- Region
- europe
When new episodes drop
- 01He came and farted at the same time 💨🙈Jun 26, 2026 · 4 min
- 02Sailor Mars Dating in BerlinMay 3, 2026 · 28 min
- 03Knowing your period can improve your dating life🩸 Carolina Spiess | Cycle CoachApr 26, 2026 · 51 min
- 04THIS is what most Berliners are searching for 😲Apr 19, 2026 · 55 min
- 05Men Say They Want Confident Women… But Do They? | Nico SlaterApr 12, 2026 · 39 min
- 06Unlocking Healthy Masculinity | Ari Cohen | Male Dating CoachMar 23, 2026 · 54 min
- 07Improve Your Dating Life: Insights from Experts and Personal Stories 💕Feb 22, 2026 · 4 min
- 08
Notable episodes
- 01He came and farted at the same time 💨🙈
A representative example of the host's solo storytelling style, recorded live at Smut Slam, showcasing the show's frank and humorous tone.
- 02Knowing your period can improve your dating life🩸 Carolina Spiess | Cycle Coach
An example of an expert interview that blends scientific information (the menstrual cycle) with the show's core theme of dating, featuring the host's signature personal anecdotes.
- 03Sailor Mars Dating in Berlin
A classic episode format featuring a guest sharing their unique dating strategies ('ABC' system) in a casual, friendly conversation with the host.
What you'll be asked on this show
Lulu often opens by establishing the guest's context—where they're from, how long they've been in Berlin, and their current dating status. She doesn't follow a rigid question list, instead letting the conversation flow organically, often prompted by her own long, personal anecdotes which she uses to build rapport and encourage similar vulnerability. She asks direct, clarifying questions to understand a guest's unique system (like the 'ABC' dating method) or to debunk common myths with experts ("Is period syncing a fact or fiction?"). The overall feel is less of a structured interview and more of a humorous, reciprocal exchange of stories and experiences.
The show is built on a very casual, conversational interview style, often feeling more like a friendly chat than a formal Q&A. Lulu Johnson frequently uses her own detailed personal anecdotes to build rapport and prompt discussion. Episodes are either guest interviews or, occasionally, recordings of Lulu's live storytelling performances.
Questions the host keeps coming back to
10 cataloguedIf you're going on this show as a guest, expect some version of each of these. Each note explains when the host reaches for it.
origin
2- Q.01
“Where are you from, how long have you been in Berlin, and what's your dating status?”
A standard opening to establish the guest's background and context in the city.
- Q.02
“Tell us what you do and where it all started.”
Used to open interviews with expert guests, establishing their credentials and backstory.
process
4- Q.01
“Can you explain your [specific] system/approach to dating?”
Probes into a guest's unique strategies after they mention them.
- Q.02
“Can you explain the four different [menstrual] cycles?”
A direct request for an expert guest to begin the main educational part of the discussion.
- Q.03
“Is there an app people can use for that?”
Follows up on advice by asking for specific tool or resource recommendations.
- Q.04
“Should you journal at a specific time?”
A follow-up question to get more specific details on a recommended practice.
mindset
1- Q.01
“How do you manage not to catch feelings?”
This question explores the emotional management behind a guest's dating approach.
controversy
2- Q.01
“Is [common belief] a fact or fiction?”
A recurring way she frames questions to experts to debunk or confirm popular myths.
- Q.02
“Are periods connected to the moon?”
Another example of her myth-busting questions for experts.
advice
1- Q.01
“Do you recommend that we journal our cycles?”
Asks for actionable, practical advice that listeners can apply themselves.
Signature segments
- · Live storytelling shows (e.g., Smut Slam)
- · "Dating, Laughter & Disasters" tagline
- · Sharing personal, often embarrassing, dating anecdotes
- · Interviews with dating and wellness experts
- · Berlin Dating Weekender events
Topics covered repeatedly
Who gets booked here
Guests are typically Berlin locals with a memorable dating story to share, or experts in fields related to relationships and well-being, such as dating coaches or cycle coaches.
- Jinnyon Sailor Mars Dating in Berlin
- Carolina Spießon Knowing your period can improve your dating life🩸 Carolina Spiess | Cycle Coach
- Tymonon THIS is what most Berliners are searching for 😲
- Nico Slateron Men Say They Want Confident Women… But Do They? | Nico Slater
- Ari Cohenon Unlocking Healthy Masculinity | Ari Cohen | Male Dating Coach
Where to find this show
Audience & reach
The podcast has featured sponsorships from local businesses like Dalriata. Given the niche Berlin-focused audience, sponsors are likely local brands targeting expatriates and young Berliners.
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People also ask
- Who is the host of Dating in Berlin?
- The host is Lulu Johnson, an Irish author who wrote the book 'Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love & Relationships'.
- What is the podcast's format?
- Each week, host Lulu Johnson interviews a guest about their dating experiences in Berlin or speaks with an expert on a related topic. The show also features recordings of Lulu's live storytelling performances.
- Is the podcast still running?
- Yes, it appears to release new episodes on a weekly basis.
- How can I share my dating story on the podcast?
- The podcast description encourages listeners to email their stories to [email — gated] or send a direct message on Instagram.
- Where can I listen to the podcast?
- The podcast is available on YouTube, Apple Podcasts, and Spotify, among other platforms.
- What is Smut Slam?
- Smut Slam is a community dirty storytelling open mic event that takes place in Berlin and other cities, where the host Lulu Johnson has performed.
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Sources & how this page was built
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- [01]Podcaster Lulu Johnson is an expert on the bad Berlin dateexberliner.com
- [02]Dating, Laughter & Disasters - Apple Podcastspodcasts.apple.com
- [03]Lulu Johnson- Dating in Berlin | Events & Ticketsrausgegangen.de
- [04]Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love and Relationships (Book)walmart.com
- [05]Dating, toxic relationships, and making friends in Germany (Lulu from Ireland) | The Germany Experiencethegermanyexperience.de
- [06]Lulu Johnson is Podcast - Buy Me a Coffeebuymeacoffee.com
- [07]Dating in Berlin Official Websitedatinginberlin.com
- [08]DATING IN BERLIN: An honest opinion! | LULU JOHNSON #05 - Guten Tag Podcastyoutube.com
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